Bruce and Emily have one biological son, Alexander (Zander) and when we met them, they were both very involved and successful in their careers. Due to a genetic disorder, they are unable to have any more children of their own (Zander himself is a miracle). After giving their lives to Christ, they felt led to adopt another child. We prayed with them and for them as they began the long and tedious process of adoption. Emily stepped out of her successful career to be a stay at home mom. A concept that was extremely scary for her as she will be the first to admit she hates cooking and just could not understand what she could possibly do all day to fill her time. Nearly 3 years ago, after a lot of prayer, William was born and adopted into the Bennett family. He is a joy.
Will wasn't in their home but a few weeks and Bruce told Emily he felt God calling them to become Foster Parents. Needless to say, it took Emily a while to get on board. Will came to them as an infant. Emily had been in the delivery room with his biological mom. Being willing to take on other children who have such sad back grounds is a huge and frightening step of faith. But, the Lord brought them together on the idea and they began the steps involved. Almost a year later, their first Foster Child was brought into their home. He was 6 months old at the time and fit right in perfectly.
Zander, Bruce, William, Emily and Oliver (Dec. 2008)
It's been amazing to watch this family foster children. They have another one in their home right now as well. Carter - he is a year old. Emily has her hands full and now never wonders what she will do with her day. Russell and I were fingerprinted so that we could help watch the kids and it has been such a joy to help them in any way possible. From keeping them all so they can have a night out, to listening to the joys and frustrations of the "system". We have been thankful to be a part of it all. Fostering is a calling. It's hard. It's giving up your lives for children that are not yours. They come into your home with lots of needs. Mainly the need to be loved and cared for properly. To have someone to finally fight for their best interest. Bruce and Emily do that every day with such love and patience. They constantly amaze me as their family continues to grow.
It's been another long and tedious process, full of lots of ups and downs. William and Oliver are only 6 months apart but they have a strong bond. After 2 years of waiting, hoping and praying, yesterday Oliver was officially adopted into the Bennett home. Russ and I were asked to stand with them in the court room. What an honor and privilege it was.
Emily and Bruce with William, Zander, Oliver and Carter along with Emily's parents in the Courtroom yesterday.
Oliver Reid Bennett
Zander, Ollie and Will making it official by slamming the gavel on the judges desk.
A proud daddy and big brother, Zander!
Before leaving Ollie grabbed the judges real gavel and had to slam it as well! He's a busy one!
They are praying now that they will be able to adopt Carter and actually want another boy closer to Zander's age and of course a girl! This will make a total of 6 children. Children are a reward from the Lord (Psalm 127:3) whether they are adopted or biological. The Bennett's are truly blessed. And we are thankful to be a small part of it.
Until next time......