Sounds like a recent movie title, huh? We didn't see this movie - but we have our own version. As we step into our new ministry at the beaches, it seems many opportunities have already come up. Russ was contacted to do a funeral of a 97 year old man who had passed away. He had outlived his wife and children and his friends wanted him to have a Christian burial. Russ accepted the task. Even though he did not know this man and was not able to give his friends any kind of assurance where he was in death, He was able to share the gospel with those at the funeral. What a wonderful opportunity.
This past Thursday, he officiated the marriage of a couple in our church. Russ has been meeting with them and having pre-marital counseling sessions. It was a small, private ceremony at our church - a middle aged couple that didn't want all the fuss. It was so nice.
Now, let me tell you about another man in our church. He has terminal cancer and is living his last days with his 94 year old mother. She, along with Hospice are helping to care for him. She is amazing! He and Russ have gotten close over the past few months. He is a strong, Christian man and he and Russ bonded very quickly. He's even asked Russ to do his funeral service. Russ accepted and is quite honored. Russ goes over to help encourage him but leaves encouraged. Russ and I were talking the other day and I said to him, "Isn't it amazing that you can go over there and be so comfortable. That you can encourage the family as they deal with hospice, you can know confidently what is normal and what isn't. You can be okay just being in the room with him because you understand all that is happening. You don't feel intimidated by the situation?" Yet another purpose for my mom's and his sister's death. God was preparing us for this ministry. Preparing us for these types of situations. It would be so difficult to know what to do and what to say if we had not been there ourselves.
So - as this man nears the end of his life, he's been dealing with his past and finding closure. Last Thursday, after the wedding, the bride and groom took us to lunch. We were all chatting and having a nice time and Russ kept getting phone calls. He was ignoring them and letting them go to voice mail and then realized that it might be about this other man. He had been going down hill all week and we were expecting a call at any time about his passing. So, Russ excused himself and went and took the phone call. As it turns out, it was this man's daughter and instead of giving us bad news she said, "Um, I have a really strange request - my parents want to get remarried! Can you do this today?" Russ chuckled and told her that he has just finished up one wedding and he would be more than happy to do another!
Turns out, they had divorced many years ago. He had called his ex-wife into his room to apologize to her and make things right. The next day, he went a step further and proposed! She said yes and Russ officiated their marriage at 5:00 last Thursday afternoon. All of their children were present and Russ said there wasn't a dry eye in the house! Since then, this man has been at great peace and is ready to be with the Lord. What a wonderful testimony. Russ actually just got a phone call that they are beginning a morphine pump on him and he doesn't want to start it until he speaks to Russ. So - Russ is on his way now to be at his side. Please pray with us as this family continues the process of saying goodbye. We are so very thankful to have been able to watch God do mighty things in this family. This is what ministry is all about.